Human communication is a complicated process with many moving parts. It’s easy to get it wrong or not as precise as intended. Good communicators understand their message goes beyond merely the words they use. They know how to say things. They know when to say things. They know how to use analogies and other tools to share understanding. They recognize the importance of inspiring others to act. Good communicators realize they share their opinion of the relationship with those they are communicating with. Base your communication upon your audience, not yourself.
Communication is a complicated give and takes process. Sometimes it’s a two-way street. Other times, it’s a one-way street. As a communicator, you only have control of what and how you project your message. The other variable in the equation you have no power over is the way the recipient receives your information. The audience hears not only what is said, but what you do not say. They pick up on the more delicate points of inflection, pace, and volume of your voice. They absorb the subtext of what is said, how you say it, and when you say it. They also filter what they hear with their attitudes, mindsets. These attitudes develop from their past experiences, their baggage, with the speaker.
In life and business, our relationships are vital to any endeavor. Healthy relationships are needed to continue to maintain or initiate change in any organization. The continuous flow of information is key to keeping those relationships. If you want to disrupt or corrupt any relationship, be a poor communicator - provide unreliable information.
As a leader and communicator, you must recognize the attitude, the baggage, the filters, your audience will use to receive your information. Be cognizant of their baggage. Craft your words so that the meaning of your message makes it through their filter. This will take planning and crafting. To help you with that, create a checklist to help you craft your message.
Follow this simple checklist as you prepare to communicate with others. Remember, your message will convey not only your information but your thoughts and opinions on your relationship with the recipient. If you build your message using the checklist, you’ll ensure you catch the essence and importance you place on your connection with the audience. You’ll be able to craft and control your message and adjust it to your audience, making sure your message gets through their filters. Craft your message using this checklist, and you increase the chances your audience will warmly receive your message.
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